Buying a home is one of the most meaningful and complex decisions a family can make. Beyond square footage and price, the right home supports your lifestyle, nurtures your family’s routines, and grows with you over time. From choosing a kid-friendly neighborhood to staging your current home for sale and easing the transition for little ones, every step matters.
With insight from Nina Spears, CEO and founder of Baby Chick, this guide walks families through the process of finding, moving into, and settling into a home that fits both their current needs and their long-term goals.
1. Choose the right home for your family’s needs
When it comes to buying a home for your family, it’s about more than just the number of bedrooms or the price tag. Nina Spears shares how to approach house hunting with kids in mind, from choosing the right neighborhood to finding a home that fits your family. “When you’re house hunting for your family, it’s not just about finding a great house; it’s about finding a home where your family can truly thrive. If you have little ones, it’s always a good idea to look for homes that are close to parks and playgrounds. Being near quality schools and childcare not only makes daily life smoother and helps create consistency for your child, which is so important for their sense of security, but it also allows your family to stay rooted as you grow within a great community and school system,” Spears emphasizes.
“For the home itself, thoughtful layouts make a world of difference. Open floor plans let you cook meals while keeping an eye on your toddler, and the good bones of a house help you transform it into the home your family needs. As you tour properties, pay attention to safety and functionality,” she continues, “features like fenced yards, first-floor bedrooms, and durable flooring can make everyday life easier and safer for young kids. You’ll also want to consider long-term livability, from flexible spaces that can evolve into homework zones or playrooms, to the potential for future renovations that accommodate your family’s changing needs.”
Real estate considerations when buying a home for your family
Proximity to quality schools: Research school districts, zoning boundaries, and future construction plans because these often have a major impact on home values and long-term resale potential.
Neighborhood safety and amenities: Look for low-traffic streets, sidewalks, and nearby parks or community spaces that make it easier for kids to play and families to connect.
Commute and accessibility: Evaluate drive times to work, schools, childcare, and major highways to ensure convenience within your routine.
Future growth and resale value: Ask your agent about neighborhood trends, local development plans, and buyer demand in the area.
Layout and flexibility: Choose homes with adaptable floor plans like extra bedrooms, bonus rooms, or finished basements that can evolve as your family’s needs change.
Storage and functionality: Prioritize homes with ample storage, such as mudrooms, pantries, and garages, to make family life more organized and manageable.
Community and lifestyle fit: Explore the neighborhood for family-friendly amenities like pools, playgrounds, and local events.
2. Time your move strategically
Timing your move strategically is one of the smartest steps you can take in the home-buying process. Start by reviewing your escrow and closing timelines, which typically range from 30 to 60 days, to determine when you’ll take possession of the property. Coordinating with your real estate agent is crucial to understanding any contingencies, like appraisal, inspection, or loan approval, that could shift your schedule. If you’re selling and buying simultaneously, consider negotiating flexible closing dates to avoid overlapping housing costs. By aligning every step of your move with your closing process, you’ll ensure a smoother, more predictable transition into your new home.
Spears emphasizes the importance of timelines during a move, especially when considering your kids. “When you have kids, timing your move can make a big difference in how smoothly everyone adjusts. We all know that babies and toddlers do best with consistency, so if possible, try to plan your moving days around nap times and meals to avoid too much overwhelm. For families with school-age kids, it’s also helpful to think about the school calendar year. Moving during a break or summer vacation gives children time to say their goodbyes, process the change, and start fresh in their new environment more smoothly. Of course, sometimes life doesn’t align perfectly, and that’s okay. The most important thing you can do is talk to your kids about it. Home doesn’t always mean a place; it’s the people who make the house a home. The more seen and supported your kids feel, the easier it is for them to adapt. And when they see you excited, that energy helps them feel more confident and hopeful, too. Kids are incredibly resilient when they feel safe, heard, and included in the process.”
3. Prep your current home for sale with kids in the picture
When preparing your home for sale, strategic staging makes a major difference in how quickly it attracts buyers, and at what price. Focus on showcasing each room’s purpose while minimizing visual clutter and other personal items that can distract from the home’s features. Storage solutions like baskets, ottomans, or built-ins keep essentials tucked away while maintaining a lived-in feel. In addition to storage solutions, utilizing neutral tones and clean surfaces helps buyers visualize themselves in the space, and well-staged photos can make rooms appear larger and more functional.
“I know that selling a home with little ones can feel like a full-time job on top of everything else, but with a little planning and teamwork, you can make it much more manageable for yourself and the whole family,” Spears explains. “I always suggest trying to involve your kids in the process if possible. Even small roles can help them feel included and less anxious about the big changes ahead. Turn decluttering into a game by setting a timer for “clean-up races” or letting your toddler choose which toys to pack first. You can also give them a small box labeled “special toys” that stays out until the very end to keep them comforted and entertained during showings and on the big moving day.”
Another tip Spears shares is the idea of a “go bag.” “Before potential buyers come by, have a ‘go bag’ ready with snacks, wipes, a blanket, and a few activities so you can step out for a walk or visit the park while your home is being shown. And don’t worry about your home looking perfect. Buyers understand that houses with kids look lived in. The goal is to highlight your home’s layout, flow, and potential, not your daily routine, so buyers can immediately picture it as their own.”
4. Pack and prioritize the essentials
When it’s time to move, organization is key to keeping stress low and ensuring nothing important gets lost in the shuffle. Start by packing room by room and clearly labeling each box with both its contents and destination in your new home. Keep essential items, like chargers, toiletries, medications, pet supplies, and a few days’ worth of clothes, in a clearly marked “first-night” box or overnight bag. Store critical documents such as IDs, passports, closing papers, and moving contracts in a separate folder or zippered pouch that stays with you at all times.
Spears adds that, especially with kids, there are a few extra organizational steps to take to ensure low chaos. “Packing for a move with kids takes a little extra strategy and a lot of snacks. I always recommend creating a dedicated “essentials bag” or “comfort box” for each child that stays with you (not on the moving truck). Fill it with their favorite toys, books, pajamas, a change of clothes, a stuffed animal, and anything that brings them comfort or keeps them entertained. It’s also helpful to pack a small box labeled “Open First – Kids” with bedtime essentials like sheets, their nightlight, and any must-haves (like babyproofing or safety items) for that first day and night in the new home. Finally, keep your own “family go bag” handy with snacks, a first-aid kit, and any medications so you’re not rummaging through boxes when everyone’s tired and hungry. These small preparations go a long way in making your move feel less chaotic and a lot more comforting for everyone.”
5. Settle into the new home quickly
Once the moving trucks pull away, settling into your new home quickly helps you start enjoying your investment and makes the transition feel seamless. Begin by unpacking essentials first, like kitchen items, bedding, and bathroom supplies, so daily routines can resume right away. Take time to walk through the property, test appliances, note any needed repairs, and familiarize yourself with key systems such as the HVAC and circuit breaker. Updating your address for mail, utilities, and homeowner’s insurance ensures everything runs smoothly from day one.
“One of the best ways to help your family adjust is to reestablish familiar routines as quickly as possible,” Spears shares. “Start by setting up your child’s sleep space first with their same bedding, nightlight, and comfort items. This helps them feel safe and signals that even though the surroundings are new, their routines stay the same. Keep mealtimes, naps, and bedtime rituals consistent. Those predictable rhythms bring comfort and stability during times of change.”
“I also recommend trying to balance the unpacking with moments of connection with the family,” Spears adds. “Sit down together for meals, take a family walk around your new neighborhood, or let your kids help choose where their toys or books go in their room. These little moments together create familiarity and joy amid all the change and (sometimes) chaos. And don’t worry about getting everything unpacked right away. Your home doesn’t have to be all put away to feel welcoming. What matters most is that your children feel safe, loved, and grounded as you all begin this new, exciting chapter together.”
6. Plan for the long term
When choosing a home that will grow with your family, it’s important to think beyond your immediate needs and consider how the space will serve you in the years ahead, as well as how it will appeal to future buyers. Location is key: Proximity to quality schools, parks, and walkable neighborhoods can enhance both your lifestyle and your home’s long-term value. A property that balances comfort, practicality, and investment potential ensures your family and your finances are set up for the future.
“As your family settles in, start thinking about how your new home can grow and evolve right alongside you. Look for ways to make your spaces flexible, a nursery that can later become a playroom or homework nook, or a guest room that can eventually transform into a cozy teen hangout,” Spears adds. “If you have outdoor space, imagine how it can support different seasons of family life, from baby blanket picnics to backyard soccer games to a garden your kids help care for. These small choices make your home feel like a living part of your family’s journey.”
Spears emphasizes the importance of building connections beyond your home walls. “I can’t stress this enough. Get to know your neighbors, explore local parks, and find community groups or activities that make everyone feel like this truly is home. Those friendships become your support system, your village, the people who show up with a cup of coffee, a playdate, or an extra hand when you need it most. When your home supports your family’s needs and your community nurtures your spirit, you’ve created something truly special: a place that holds your memories, milestones, and the beautiful, ever-changing story of your family.”
FAQs about moving with kids
1. How do you make moving with kids less stressful?
The key to a smooth move is preparation and communication. Talk to your kids early about what’s happening and involve them in simple tasks like packing or labeling boxes. Keeping routines as consistent as possible, especially meals, naps, and bedtime, helps kids feel secure during the transition.
2. What’s the best way to plan a move?
Start planning several weeks in advance and create a clear moving timeline. Work with your real estate agent to confirm closing and move-in dates, then schedule movers, school transfers, and utility setups accordingly.
3. How can parents help kids adjust to a new home?
Once you’ve moved in, reestablish familiar routines right away. Set up your child’s room first with their usual bedding, nightlight, and toys to make the new space feel comfortable. Spend time exploring your neighborhood together and introduce your kids to nearby parks, schools, and neighbors to help them feel at home faster.
4. When is the best time to move with kids?
If possible, plan your move around your family’s natural breaks — such as summer vacation or between school semesters — to minimize disruption. Early mornings or weekdays often work best for younger children, giving you more daylight to unpack and settle in before bedtime.
5. What are some real estate considerations when moving with kids?
When house hunting, look for homes near quality schools, parks, and safe, walkable neighborhoods. Ask your Redfin real estate agent about local zoning, school ratings, and commute times. A home that fits your family’s daily needs will make the adjustment smoother for everyone after the move.
